Contact over 4000 AI sperm donors around the world
willing to donate sperm for self-insemination, no fees.
Please familiarise yourself with the FSDW Behaviour Code- this applies to members and donors.
FSDW is a strictly AI only web site for safety and other reasons, so
if you do want NI (sex) please respect the site behaviour code and
do not join. Thank you!
To join simply pay your subscription fees to access FSDW member's only area, and complete profile set up form.
When your profile is live you can search for and contact FSDW sperm donors, and make your own arangement!
Also make use of free donor agreement docs, join blogs, share info - and ask Emma (a child behaviour advisor and family therapist) for advice.
FSDW is about meeting the needs of private sperm donors, potential recipients and also the children born as a result.
There is no time limit- you can join and unsubscribe - for only 30 days if you simply want to see how FSDW works.
If you have ANY questions or concerns (eg a FSDW registered sperm donor asks for sex- or payment) please email Emma in confidence
- the site creator and members area moderator- also known as
The Child Listener
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- you have the choice of UK, USA or AU currency- paypal will
convert to your currency if you live elsewhere.
You can cancel at any time- just follow cancellation instructions,
or use "Unsubscribe" button
here and further
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After Paying Please Complete Profile Set up Form
Thank you for these fees- they enable Emma to operate the site- and personally respond to, and support everyone who uses the FSDW Members Only Area.
AU$50 for the initial 30 days & then
30 days thereafter until you cancel
£30 for the initial 30 days and then £20
every 30 days thereafter until you cancel
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for every 30 days until you cancel
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questions about payment? Email Emma
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Please dont use your real name as username
We strongly suggest that you set up a free yahoo or hotmail
address for use within your Profile
- delete it when no longer required.
Emma will generally get new members logged in within 24 hours of payment clearance
Do check your junk mail box though! You can also use the Lost Password option at login page - just put in the username your chose and the email address on your form
you have been sent your password you may add as much information to
your profile as possible, so that when you contact donors they can
visit your page to find out all about you!
Donors can then also search
for people looking for donors in
their area and contact you if they
feel they can help!
Remember that FDW just help you to connect - like a dating site!
Once youve accessed the members area the rest is up to you
- so stay safe and good luck!
Email Emma- firstname.lastname@example.org
Thank you for your payments-without these we could
not offer the service.
They cover our operating costs so
that we can
try and help even more women and
infertile couples in the future!
GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!
Cancelling your FSDW subscription
If you do NOT
wish to continue your membership at the end of the
30 days please
before the end of the 30 days.
Deleting your profile does not end your agreement.
If this button doesnt work for you- please try Manual cancellation
-Just login to your paypal account,
History, Basic Search- Advanced Search -and put
email@example.com into Email for the past Year. Look for Subscription Creation and then click on Details
- you'll find the link to cancel.
If you do nothing
your membership will remain live, and fees will be paid at the end of each 30 days- in this way
you can access all new donors as they sign up. You can cancel your membership and payments at any time after the
initial payment ie you only have to join for the initial 30 days if
you so wish. It is YOUR responsibility to cancel your subscription
from within your paypal account when you have found a suitable donor
or no longer wish to be a member.
Please note however that if you cancel your membership and wish to
then reinstate it at a later time you will need to start again. We cannot refund payment made- it is your
responsibility to cancel your subscription before it renews each 30
We do not issue refunds unless a donor you wished to contact, who you saw on the free to view public pages, is no longer active in the members only area ie no profile, no ability for you to contact him.
We expect you to let us know within 5 days of joining.
Go back - carry on completing subscription form
- What happens after I have paid the FSDW
Subscribers are offered a free message on the boards- and can access
the database of over 3000 sperm donors for as long as they
keep their subscription current.
Non-registered FSDW donor can contact you through the
public message boards.
Set up a hotmail address just for this purpose and to protect yourself.
Do not give out too much personal information at the beginning.
You will be sent login details, and then have access to the database of sperm donors- and can update info in your profile, add photos etc.
There is an internal messaging system
- you can use that to send and receive messages, or click on the bottom of their profile and this email is sent directly to them (you dont see their email address) They will see the email address you specify. You will then start corresponding. If something doesnt feel right trust you instinct- and let me know if any donors appear to want payment or sex. That would be in breach of our Behaviour Code.
Sperm donors register, offering to donate without charge, and as such will want to find a suitable match in the same way you do - so if you use this site please do accept that it may take time to find the right one, and you will need to have lots of patience. Put as much info in your profile as possible, so that donors can get an idea of your personality and the type of arrangement you are looking for. We ask all donors to at least reply with a polite 'sorry, I cant help you' if this is the case- however if donors fail to respond, or respond inappropriately, please do let us know. It is by using member feedback that I can monitor what is going on and try to keep the site a safe and respectful place to correspond with one another.
Members can also use a free legal document outlining their agreed arrangement with donor
- just get this signed and notarised to clearly state your intention.
When you think you have found the 'right donor' you need to decide what tests etc you require- and there are usually places you can get your donor tested for free- eg in the UK you just got to your local NHS GU clinic for same day testing and results. Some of our sperm donors are registered with sperm banks and have that info.
When you are happy that all is going to your satisfaction you will need to make your arrangement re collection of fresh sperm ready for self-insemination, or make an arrangement with him to donate to a clinic. If you meet him in person to collect fresh sperm ideally you need to inseminate twice within the 48 hours prior to ovulation. There are only a few days in your cycle when it is possible to become pregnant. Please do not waste your donor's time- monitor your cycle prior to starting
Most members arrange to meet their donor at a safe place, where he will ejaculate in another room, and then offer you the fresh sperm in a wide rimmed plastic container and leave. Take someone with you. Wait until the sperm has gone from cloudy to clear and inseminate with plastic syringe as quickly as possible. Read Self-insemination info on the site or buy a self-insemination kit from DIY Baby.
All you really need is a plastic cup and syringe - get these
from your local chemist. If he donates to a clinic the sperm will be quarantined for six months to be sure it is safe with regards to HIV etc-ask for options at your local sperm bank/ clinic. Many of our members use this site as they would prefer to know something about the biological father of their child- even if there is no active involvement. Members usually choose a donor who closely resemble someone they would date, or would be freinds with. You cant get that information from a sperm donor catalogue.
Through FSDW we offer choices.
The site is maintained using subscription fees- and so I do not issue refunds unless a donor you wanted to contact (on the public pages) is no longer listed in the members area. On occasion donors delete their profiles and dont let me know, although this doesnt happen often.
Please note that this is very similar to a dating site- I can't guarantee anything, and please do consider if this is really right for you!
If not you may wish to use a sperm bank - many are listed in the
Sperm donation directory and will be listed more comprehensively on
my new DIY Baby web site.
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Thanks for your email.
I would have kept in touch
and told you about any good news in the coming New Year...fingers crossed...
I have found the right
donor (with careful consideration), from your brilliant site :)
We have communicated on
a numerous occasions by email and spoken a few
times via mobile. He caters
to all my expectations...
He has agreed to start AI in January. By that time I
would have been on folic acid
tablets long enough and checked anything out including his status of
*****, the Donor has been
a perfect gentlemen and
been straight forward of his expectations to what type
of involvement he wishes - which is contact when the child ( he or she), reaches
18 years old, or earlier if the child wishes it...which is
want I wish too...I am travelling to him, staying in
an hotel and I am taking a friend with me. W*** lives
not far from the station.
I was very surprised and impressed with your FSDW site, especially too how
much information you offer.
I was very impressed with
the information about putting the 'child's needs' first -
being honest with he or she about their parentage. This worried me a great deal but your site covered a lot of ground and has made me
less anxious about how to approach this sensitive
issue to my child in the
near future. Yes, I agree honesty is the best
I cannot think of anything to improve your FSDW site...
you have covered everything...if I do think of anything I will email you again.
I was introduced to your site via a friend who has been a surrogate mother in the
past, so she is aware of
what is involved practically, physical and emotionally etc. She is the friend who is companying me to London.
Fingers crossed that all goes well, which I am sure with the donor I have chosen. I promise I will let you know how it goes or if anything is not above board.
Again Emma, thank you for the opportunity you have given me by creating your site, without it I would have not found a donor.
(name removed for privacy)
Hi Emma, I thought you might like an update, which i have
only just got round to now because i have been so busy with my little girl! Riya was
born on 17th October and is now nearly 3 months old. I cannot decribe how happy
i am, she is just perfect and
her big brother adores her! It
is thanks to this website where i found the right donor, who is also
very happy to have given our family a little girl, and we will remain friends. Thank you
so so much.
Please feel free to show this
on your site, if you do i would also like to say, congratulations to everyone who has become a parent through using this site and lots of luck to those still waiting.
from Amy JAN 2009
Hi Emma - just to let
you know I'm leaving the members area. Your website has been successful in bringing together two
like-minded singleton's to
have a child together whilst were still young ('ish)! Thank you for this - we'll keep you updated, hopefully a healthy happy baby before the end of the year. kind rgds h**
Congrats to L and C!
Hi there here are as
promised some photos of us and our little boy who we
have called Jake. He was
born weighing 9lb 9oz which was quite a shock as im
only little, hence i needed a caesarian section but it has
all been worth it as we have such a beautiful, happy and contented baby who has
made our life so complete. Nothing can compare to the feeling i have when I hold
him and he looks at me
with his gorgeous smile.
I know the midwives say
you have to wait till 6 weeks before they smile but
honestly he smiled the first
day he was born and does everyday. He totally amazes
me everyday and I feel so blessed to have the
opportunity to be a parent.
I hope that everyone has the chance on FSDW to have a baby. Its the best thing
in the world.
Thank you again,
L******, C***** and Jake x x
SUCCESS! Thank you. Please remove us and all records
from your system. We're REALLY grateful to you and of course to our donor. Feel free to publish this message but PLEASE no names.
Thank you so much.
We are often asked why
FSDW donor donate without fees
- this is what
them said :
"It is the most amazing
feeling, and the genuine
donors that I talk to share
the same highs and lows
with the girl at the end of the dreaded 2 week wait...".
I am attaching a picture of I*******, she was my first success at AI, again thanks
to your wonderful website.
(donor name removed)
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Hi Emma and Team.
I wish to ask you to cancel my subscription, as after 12 months of very careful planning and testing, I am now pregnant. Thanks for providing a site
such as this
Several months ago I listed
an ad with your website. I was fortunate enough
to find a donor and am now
5 1/2 months pregnant!
Hi, i just want to say
thankyou! i am in a same sex relationship and
would be along time and alot of money before i had a child but
after the first attempt of AI
through your site i am now 6 weeks pregnant!
Thankyou so much for
women like us a
chance to have what we
more than anything!
S and C.
Just to let you know that I
now have a baby on the
way thanks to FSDW .
Anyway, I'm now back in the
dating game, which I dont
think really mixes with
donating, so please if you could delete my profile - ***
Thank you very much, I did
want another child & it has
made both me & my recipient very happy. I have also met a
number of very nice people
in the process. Obviously I
may come back at
some time in the future,
but at the moment
I'm 'otherwise occupied
are very happy with
the service from you and
Within half an
hour of our ad going on the
we found a
suitable donor. We did
get quite a few
but we used the first contact
made as he
was the most
suitable. After two
we are now
4 weeks pregnant
over the moon it has taken
us 7 years to get
here. We cannot thank you and the website for our
is still early and we will
keep you informed
of how it goes.
Regards, M& T.
Baby girl born Dec 2006! .
Read their story in the
get masses of
why I keep the
site going! A huge
thanks to all the
we just want to thank you very much for helping us to create our beautiful baby boy Jacob! He's absolutely perfect, we couldn't have done it without your help, keep up the good work!
I have to say I stumbled across your site by chance last year. I'm so, so glad
I did. We're a lesbian
couple (married for over a year now) who really
want to start a family.
We have spent a little while looking at and contacting people on the site who (mostly) have been very friendly and responded.
We have now found a truly lovely guy and met him yesterday for the first time after conversing via email for quite a while. He really is a truly genuine guy and
we have decided to proceed with him
(starting in March).
We are both so excited and pleased that we have been able to do this thanks to your site. I would like to truly thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
I will inform you when
we have success!!!
Thanks again Emma
(and the team)
D and B xxx
We are discontinuing our account at this time as we
have found an amazing donor (*****) who is willing to help both of us get pregnant. We have timed our ovulation and will be meeting for our first try this week. Thank you so much! We will let you know when we have success!!!
I want to say im sooooo
proud of what you are doing. You dont know the happiness you bring to peoples lives.
I couldnt have afforded the
cost of the sperm centres
fees and so wouldnt have
been able to get another baby ever.You have given me
the chance to hopefully have one more baby before
its too late. Ive waited 16
yrs to find the right man and couldnt so my son who
is 16 has no genetic siblings. My dad has only 2
grandkids out of his four daughters so im happy
and he will be too that he
will have another grandchild
.I just joined last week
and think I have already
found a donor in portugal
who is willing to travel here in oct for donation. ...
After meeting & being let
down 6 times by donors I thought I would never find
one I was very low and then I meet a donor who just
saved me who has helpt
me so much I am due to have my baby any day now and
its all thanks to a great donor and your site and I would
like to say to members
out there who are thinking of given up to stay hopefull
the site doese work !!
are good donors
out there thankyou to you for helping get my dream
We joined your site
two months ago. Found the perfect donor. And
have just discovered.......
.after the second attempt
A BABY IS ON THE WAY!!!!!!!
Can't thank you enough
for startinghis site.
After 6 heartbreaking
years of trying......never
thought it could be so easy.
Im from Western Australia.
(donor name removed)
did it for us!
I couldn't me happier
with your services.
I am 2-3 weeks pregnant
as a result!
Thank you ! We found our perfect donor on your site
and we started trying
for a baby last month. I
will let you know how successful we are, but in
meantime we are very greatful for getting this far.
just to let you know
things have worked out for
me i am now pregnant after
a first go at meeting a
donor at your web site
Hi Emma- just a quick message to let you know
that after getting in touch with our donor through your
site we are now pregnant. Thank you so much for the worthwhile work you do.
Hi Emma, hope you are well,
Just thought we best update you with our progress, We thankyou very much from the bottom of our hearts, we are pregnant after our first
attempt, and today it was confirmed my partner
is carrying twins. Thankyou is not a strong enough word we can use. Our donor was excellent and we have be able to build up a great raport with him. Once again this service you provide has helped us achieve our dream.C and A
I should have emailed
before now but I have
busy with our beautiful 6 month old son. Thanks to
work we found a genuine
donor and our son
everything we could have wished for and more. Our
donor has also offered to
help us again
in the future
with a sibling for our son and to complete
We can't begin to
thank you enough
would like to send you
my thanks on behalf of
, the gay couple I
born a few days ago,
Your work is really important and helped us all achieve
something in our lives
which we wanted so
and all the best to your
for the future.
Hi Emma, Just thought i
would let you know that i
did two pregnancy tests
today and they were both positive!!
After only one try at AI. I am
still not 100% convinced
that i am actually pregnant,
they were faint lines, but
they were there and i know
its rare to get a false
I'm going to have to another
test in a couple of days to
I cant thank you enough
for your website, what
is amazing for
so many of us.
Thank you so so much.
Thanks to your site, I'm now pregnant. I found a suitable
donor straight away and
luckily first insemination
proved successful. really
thrilled and it's down to
your site putting me in
contact with my donor.
have waited absolutely ages
through a private clinic,
not to mention the price
i could have paid. once again,
thank you so much
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Join Free Sperm Donations Worldwide and access the database of over 1600 private sperm donors, all willing to
donate fresh sperm for home self-insemination, without charges or fees. Some also donate to sperm banks and can
arrange for shipping.
You only cover out of packet expenses.
Your chosen donor can get tested for STDs and HIV etc privately or if you are in the UK your local NHS GU clinic will
offer same day free testing.
Use the free documents in the members only area to make a written record of your arrangement and get this notarised
by a solicitor so that your agreement and intention is clearly defined.
When you have chosen your donor and are clear with regards to your arrangement meet him on your most fertile days
to collect fresh sperm for self-insemination or make an arrangement that he donates to a local sperm bank for your use.
Top Tips for Getting Pregnant Using Self-Insemination
What is self insemination?
DIY (do-it-yourself) or self-insemination, is a method in which the woman (or her partner )
inserts semen into the vagina herself,
without medical assistance. This is surprisingly easy - and a useful technique
for single women, lesbian and
infertile couples, and heterosexual couples with sexual dysfunction.
How to self-inseminate - what is needed
The most important ingredient is freshly ejaculated semen that is inseminated within 90 minutes max).
Ask your donor to ejaculate in a clean glass or plastic container. Make sure this is wide-mouthed,
so it’s easier for him to aim accurately – you want it all!
You can also use frozen semen samples from a sperm bank, after allowing them to thaw at room temperature.
Visit our Directory for listings of sperm banks - usually in the USA- that will ship overseas if you live outside of the US
After the semen sample has liquefied (this takes about 30 minutes), you are now ready to self-inseminate.
Suck up the semen sample into a 10-ml plastic disposable syringe (without a needle) or use a turkey baster
- although the small amount of semen does not require such a large instrument.
The semen now needs to be squirted into the vagina- and as this is sometimes tricky you may want to have
practised this a few times first- using water. . You need to lie on a bed, with your knees and thighs bent, and
your knees wide apart. Guides the tip of the syringe into the vagina and put the syringe in as deep as you can
before plunging the barrel, depositing the semen into the vagina. Ideally you should try to have an orgasm during
the process- by stimulating the clitoris- not through penetration or insertion of anything such as a vibrator.
The only thing to go inside the vagina is the syringe!
You may find it easier to lie on the edge of the bed, with a pillow under hips so that your hips protrude over the edge
you undertake the procedure . You can remain lying on your back for about ten minutes, after which you can
resume normal activity. Some of the semen will leak out, and this is normal.
While using a speculum is not essential, it can help, because it makes it easier to inject the semen at the mouth of the
uterus (the cervix). You can use a disposable plastic speculum, and when you insert the speculum, make sure the
blades are closed. You can slide it in upwards, or else sideways, turning it when it has been pushed all the way into your
vagina. When the handles are above your pubic bone, squeeze them together, which will open your vaginal walls. You will hear
a click when the speculum is locked open. If you are inseminating with a partner s/he will be able to see your cervix, which is
round and pink with an opening (the os) in the middle. The mucus may appear as a clear bubble, or a thread like raw egg white.
You can use a mirror to see what’s going on for yourself, if you so desire! After the insemination, make sure that you
release the handles and collapse the blades before removing it from your vagina.
Some women use a cup or cap for self-insemination. Rubber cervical caps are designed for contraception (hence the name "cap")
but they can be used for insemination. There is also a cervical cup especially designed for insemination, which is slightly
larger and more shallow, the name "cup" indicating that it serves as a semen receptacle. You simply squat down, check the
position of your cervix, and insert the cap containing the semen in that direction, holding it upright at all times. Check all around
the top of your vagina to make sure that you didn’t miss you cervix. The cup can be removed after several hours. Take care to
break the suction by hooking a finger over the edge of it before trying to pull it out.
Timing the procedure is extremely important, because you need to inseminate during your "fertile period".
Fortunately, it’s quite easy to determine when you ovulate, and you can either monitor your
cervical mucus, or use an ovulation prediction kit.
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